A two step method to move on after being scammed

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I’m an online shopping addict.

Like many others, I’ve spent countless hours browsing online stores and adding unnecessary items to my cart before checking all of them out during “promotional periods”.

And even with numerous stories of people buying defective products or being “cheated” of their money by sellers who simply disappeared, I never considered myself at risk of a scam. To me, that was something that was simply not possible. After all, I’ve always done my due diligence and only bought from reputable sellers with lots of good reviews.

That was until I was the one being scammed.

The Scam


How the current focus on recycling is bad for the environment

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Furthermore, the prevalence of waste even affects areas that are far away from human settlements. Henderson Island, an uninhabited coral atoll, has the highest density of anthropogenic debris recorded anywhere in the world, with 99.8%…

The science behind our inability to stop shopping consumerism.

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Here’s why minimalism is the way to go

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Nowadays, becoming invested in helping the environment feels like a chore to many. From giving up your car, cutting out air travel, going vegetarian (or even vegan), and even having to fork out extra money to buy necessities that are “greener”, many might believe that caring for the environment requires huge sacrifices.

Of course, while some sacrifices might be more palatable (like taking a slightly shorter shower or avoiding the use of air-conditioners), many other sacrifices make life much tougher (like giving up the use of a private car in a remote suburban location). …

Even if you get nearly no views at all

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Blogging can be depressing at times. Whether it is on Medium or through other blogging platforms, opening up the “stats” page and seeing low numbers feels extremely discouraging.

And I should know how it feels to get nearly no views. After all, I started my first month on Medium writing posts that garnered single digit views, earning a grand total of 1 cent through the Partner Program at the end of the month. Furthermore, I am no Tim Denning. I still regularly post stories that barely get any traction.

Truthfully, I have thought about quitting. I’ve experienced bad writer burnout…

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If you’ve read anything from the self-help or self-improvement genre, the call to “be yourself” would definitely have appeared in front of you at least once before. Even here on Medium, we are constantly encouraged to “stay faithful” to our true selves and “express ourselves” however we want to. And honestly, I love this call to embrace our true selves. Nothing is more helpful for our mental health and confidence.

Yet, despite all the calls to “be yourself”, living in the real world often makes me question if I should really be expressing myself however I want. When I’m too…

Leave the hustle culture behind, we’re trying to enjoy ourselves here

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Jerren Gan

| Freelance writer • Blogger • Poet | Loves writing about the environment, mental health and the beauty of language • used to write movie and book reviews

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